December 18, 2018 | eaglespi | Leave a comment Want to get back to the real point of the holidays? Let go of your ideal picture of Christmas or Yule or Kwanzaa or Hanukkah and simply show up! Sensitive souls can get hooked by their need for perfection at the holidays. Part of that can be control and part of it is self-care. The key is knowing the difference and that may depend on your level of sensitivity. If the lights have to be the right colour and intensity, the food needs to be perfect for everyone’s special diets and you are really concerned about getting the annual family photo just right, chances are you have slipped into perfectionism rather than self-care. These 3D world expectations are a big disconnect from our knowing that we are spiritual beings having a physical experience. Your sensitivities are a spiritual gift that could make this holiday season so much more profound if you honour them. Do not become a martyr for the sake of making the “perfect” holiday. Today’s Holiday Tip: Balance your need to make this holiday season special with remembering what the holidays are really about and honouring your wellness needs. Recognize your need for quiet and reflection amidst all of the holiday gatherings and events. Embrace your sense of connection to everyone and be sure that wherever you feel called to help that it is truly meaningful to you. Honour your spiritual energetic body with things like prayer, meditation and radiating love. Those gifts bless both you and those you share them with. December 18th’s affirmation: * Today’s affirmation comes from the Empathways ~ Affirmations for Sensitive Soul series. Get your personal set for your altar or to give as a gift at our gift shop. We want to help you celebrate your holiday season and deepen into the joy of thriving as a sensitive soul! Each morning a new door will open to help you savour the day and honour your sensitivities. Imagine opening a daily treat from now until December 25th that has been created just for you! Do you have other tips about caring for your wellness at the holidays, or a story to share that might help others? Please share in the comment section below. Together we are stronger! EagleSpirit, a Contemporary Shaman, has worked for over 20 years to help clients relax their bodies, release limiting beliefs and radiate their most authentic selves. As the creator of Empath 101 Empowerment program she speaks to groups internationally, facilitates the month-long course that has changed lives and is often featured in the media for her grounded approach to spirituality. Visit here for more details about Empath 101 and contact us if you would like to sponsor the program in your area. Email to find our about personalized Soul Journeys, the 2019 Sedona Spirit Quest Tours or private sessions. You deserve to feel Soul Good!